2022.01.20 01:10 Sea-Ice-4332 I'm not a priority in my friend group
Hey everyone, I just had a realization that I'm not a priority in my friend group and I'm not sure what to do.
I'm a college student in a friend group of 6 people and we all met in the same dorm. Because of covid, our classes are online, so the six of us have been hanging out more often than before. It's not like we go out to restaurants and stuff but mostly going to the dining hall together, studying together, something causal. Since it's hard to coordinate all six of our schedules, we don't usually hang out with all six of us. Someone would usually send a text in the group chat saying "dining hall?" and whoever is available would go hang out.
However, I've been noticing that the rest of them were hanging out without me, on days where nobody texted anything in the groupchat. At first, I dismissed it by thinking that sometimes, you just run into each other and randomly hang out. But it has been happening more often than not, and it really sucks to feel like you're not prioritized. Whenever I ran into someone and randomly hung out, we would usually text or call to see whoever is in the dorm to hang out. But when I'm not there, it seems like they don't care to take the extra mile to invite me.
They're a fun group of people and I still like hanging out with them, but I'm not sure what to do. I think about confronting them, but I feel like that's just gonna make me sound desperate. Do I just slowly create an emotional distance so I do not get hurt by it anymore? I don't think I should cut them off because we run into each other quite often, and I do not want to create any drama. Any advice in this situation would be greatly appreciated.
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2022.01.20 01:10 -Downpour If a child gets jealous when her dad treats her brother better than her, but she wouldn't care if dad was the mom. Does that usually mean she favors dad over mom?
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2022.01.20 01:10 BuckClydesdale One more Realistic post - my MC-1000 speakers that I refurbished. More in comments.
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2022.01.20 01:10 alexisntedgytho does anyone know the year or decade of this Roddy doll? i’m going to be restoring her but would like to know how old she is first.
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2022.01.20 01:10 Drunk_Whiplash my TV volume has never reached 100
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2022.01.20 01:10 UGAwxDawg PGT: Georgia (5-13) loses to #2 Auburn (17-1), 83-60.
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2022.01.20 01:10 Traumarama79 Nothing will ever be good enough for this body
So my backstory is that I was diagnosed hEDS on January 6, 2020, and then two months later we all know what comes next. The combination of years of diagnosis purgatory (in which I was heavily symptomatic), getting the diagnosis, and then immediately being put into a global pandemic really caused me to get serious about my health. I quit coffee and cigarettes, became vegetarian, quit dairy products, and started working out about 2x/wk with HIIT and 2x/wk with light strength stuff, either hypermobility Pilates, pole, Cirque du Soleil exercises or, my favorite, roller skating. I also started attending physical therapy regularly. I also resolved to stick to my medication regimen like actually and include supplements for digestion.
At first the changes were really noticeable and exciting. I put on 5lbs and a lot of it was muscle. I had less muscle weakness and fewer dislocations. I even stopped qualifying for a chronic migraine diagnosis, so I was only having about one migraine per week. My POTS was under control. My pain was improving. I was really feeling good about myself, actually, for over a year.
Then omicron came. My daughter tested positive twelve days ago and I immediately developed symptoms as well. At first, my daughter was sicker than I was; I just had some minor cold symptoms. I felt horrible and prayed to take her sickness from her. Well, my prayers were answered, lol. I developed bronchitis about five days into symptoms. So I had about 3-4 days of just gnarly bronchitis, fevers, laryngitis, etc. All I could do was hang out in my chair and hope eventually I stopped having covid. Eventually that day did come, and I've cleared my infection.
I do have some residual symptoms left. It seems like I always have a postviral syndrome of some kind. My POTS has flared up more now and I have an unremitting migraine, both of which were long symptoms I developed after the flu two years ago. I have not worked out since before I got covid and I am so depressed about that, though my understanding is that trying too quickly to resume a workout regimen after covid can increase one's chances of long covid. So I'm holding off, but it's hard, because I know it's so easy for us to slip into positive feedback loops of muscle wasting, muscle weakness, increased pain, and decreased activity. It took me years to get into a good regimen and I feel like covid is taking that from me.
I guess what I'm pissed about is that I feel so fucking betrayed by my body constantly, like all it does is take from me. My daughter's 72yo grandmother, who is and has always been extremely healthy, was over covid in three days flat. I'm less than half her age and still struggling with its aftereffects nearly two weeks later. I've completely changed my lifestyle and rendered myself a pretentious and insufferable health nut, and my reward is that my vaccinated and boosted immune system still led me to develop bronchitis and what will probably end up being long symptoms. I have friends my age who are in as bad of shape as me, sure, but they're still getting messed up on drugs and alcohol constantly, never exercising, eating bad, etc. I feel like I try so fucking hard to make sure my body is well-cared for, and I still have such a low baseline for health and symptoms of illness.
I'm just very frustrated and wanted to vent somewhere where people get it.
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2022.01.20 01:10 Doggypickle5211 You have been visited by the Snoot of Balance
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2022.01.20 01:10 Oakleaf212 I think I experienced an NDE but I’m not sure
Been feeling sick, in particular with breathing to preface. This happened last night.
At some point in the night I just started staring at the wall with no sense of self or anything else. Just eyes staring at a wall. Then I felt a ping of pain that I tried to ignore. Eventually the pain got so bad that I started facing the other way. Which I could only know because I wasn’t staring at the wall anymore. Eventually I start hearing my voice (I think) in my head saying to ignore the pain. Then I heard another voice (my voice still I think) saying something wrong with the pings of pains.
With the pain turning out to be a headache. The worse headache I’ve ever had like my head was going to explode. Until my brain turned on or something and I suddenly remembered who I was and regained my full sense of self. However I had no sense or close to it of smell, hearing, touch, with the motor skills of a baby until it slowly came back after doing random things because I was lowkey freaking out that this was permanent.
That voice telling me to ignore the pain was dominate one compared to the other. Pretty sure the headache going away was my body finally getting in fresh air which I think took a combined effort of that voice saying something was wrong and my body going on autopilot/master control until I finally breathed again.
10/10 don’t ever want to experience that again.
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2022.01.20 01:10 Red_head_on_reddit On one end, Mabel didn’t like him back, so pedo. But on the other one, Mabel is older, so Gideon is a simp
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2022.01.20 01:10 Sudden-Degree9839 Are Reddit posts completely deleted?
I've manually deleted some posts in the past. I've heard that even deleted posts can be seen by moderators or by other servers??
Anyway, what if i deleted my entire Account all together? Would my deleted posts still be seen by others & Moderators?
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