The Hipster Neighborhood Paradox

2022.01.20 01:12 pineappledojo182 The Hipster Neighborhood Paradox

I may be an idiot but I've been mulling this over for a long time and can't make any sense of it. Growing up near Brooklyn, NY, I would frequent a lot of "hipster" restaurants/clubs/dive bars that are all independently owned. Given that the owners are running a business under one of the most highly regulated and corrupt governments in the US7, you'd think it would breed more libertarians. Instead, they seem to become increasingly progressive with each passing year. They clearly continue to vote/support policies that make wealth creation virtually impossible.
Unfortunately the simple answer is that the original founders of these establishments either founded the business pre-gentrification OR they have wealthy parents. But regardless, you'd think that firsthand business operation experience would allow them to see the true evils of the state. Instead, they bask in glow of lefty politics.
I guess this is the definition of a Limousine Liberal 🤷
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2022.01.20 01:12 ValidGentleman First layer wavy at center of the bed. I’ve been trying to level my bed and all 4 corners look great. The center has these waves (shown in picture). Any idea what might be causing this?

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2022.01.20 01:12 newsfeedmedia1 MAFS 2022: Groom Brent Vitiello reveals his bizarre foot phobia

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2022.01.20 01:12 ShelfAboveMyDildo Another day, another scuffed CB S+ boost

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2022.01.20 01:12 amnesiac7 Woodbury location of $30 million Washington County service center may come down to 3 sites

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2022.01.20 01:12 c-n-s My IFS Journal

This is really just me journalling, but if you feel like you want to add anything then please do. The content will probably be all over the place. Such is the nature of a journal.
I've been making some great progress with a very wounded part these past few days. Last year I posted a few 'stuck' posts, and eventually began to hit on the root cause but was still going about it the wrong way. My trigger was, so I believed, my head shape, particularly as a child, and I was describing a lifelong feeling of being an inferior brand of person as a result. I tried, without much success, to 'counsel' the parts that were affected by this. But counseling was never going to work.
Recently my anxiety has been through the roof, and I observed that it was often worse when I was around larger groups of people. I also started getting a sense that my desire for sex is actually a desire to be in a position where I am fully accepted as I am. This is actually a very important clue.
Over the christmas break, I had decided to take a break from anything to do with IFS. I decided that, if anything, I would focus on the methods I had used before (namely, somatic experiencing) for my healing. I also decided that 2022 would be the year of 'coming home'.
But recently I've started to see that the two methods are actually very similar in how they are carried out.
So I did a meditation earlier in the week, holding myself (it's one Peter Levine has a video on where he shows how to calm anxiety by holding yourself). I realised my deepest and most traumatised part enjoyed that. So I carried on. I then wondered 'what if this part is a very young child?' and started rocking gently and stroking my shoulder as I held myself. I then imagined the part being held by a mother, and being sung a song. What I felt from the part was very interesting.
At first it was a sense of liking the focussed attention and unconditional love, but then I realised he still had an overwhelming sense of 'needing this comfort from his mother because he was broken at the core'. And thinking back, I do remember spending much if not all of my conscious life feeling this way.
Today I did another meditation with this part. I don't have to ask for access to him. He's with me all the time at the moment. And then another really big thing hit me - this part has been screaming at me for years. I have given him so much attention and asked him to show me what's wrong, but he has never answered. Because he doesn't know.
Why? Because this is a preverbal part.
Picture this: a baby is born with an asymetric head and one eye permanently squinting. The child would have lord knows how many appointments with medical experts staring at his face, analysing the 'defects'. This wouldn't have been a one-off thing. It would have been months and months of it. You can just imagine the energy in those consult rooms every time it happened. Love him or not, his mother would also have shared the concerns of the medical experts, and perhaps even felt some shame of her own, so she would have also contributed to the aura of 'brokenness' about the child. And, as if that's not enough, where were both areas of concern? In the face. So a preverbal child has a childhood made up of many instances of being in a room with a lot of concern directed at him, and as people examine him they are looking directly at his face and in the eyes. Is it any wonder I've had a lifelong sentiment of being broken at the core?
So my traumatised part is carrying all this. The strong feeling he gives me happens when I overthink certain things, in particular, when I overthink what he might be trying to tell me. Because he's angry at everyone in the world insisting there's something wrong with him. He feels certain he is broken because the only experience he has with superior figures backs that claim up 100%. He's angry about that.
When a baby is angry, what does it do? It screams. Can you reason with it? Can you counsel it? Hell no. This whole thing is starting to make sense. It makes sense now why leaving him alone (stopping overthinking and focussing on the present moment) does actually work - because he is fed up with the attention. I now understand what Richard Schwartz means when he talks about having complete acceptance of all parts.
I'm not going to say what I will do next, because I've learnt more from listening to this part in a few days than I have through a year of trying to reason with him. He knows what he needs, and one day he and I will find out what that is. All I'm going to do more of is exactly what I've been doing with him this week - continuing to just hold him and accept that he has a lot of anger he needs to discharge. I suppose one day we'll get to addressing the core wound, but right now I just want to help him however he needs it.
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2022.01.20 01:12 GioMasterclassjiedel New book of boba fett episode had me hyped. Had to put the “armor” on

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2022.01.20 01:12 TheGaroMask Does anyone want to cheer me up by taking me this will definitely be reissued soon?

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2022.01.20 01:12 -PayForMyPlace- How many of you?

How many of you started smoking because of a loved one who smoked? A family member or partner basically? *excluding friends or curiosity/for fun
And why?
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2022.01.20 01:12 Connect-Season-7132 Black spots on ball after every throw?

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2022.01.20 01:12 newsfeedmedia1 Triple-vaxxed TV star Shelly Horton shares her odd Covid symptoms

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2022.01.20 01:12 Jakeyboy143 Ang desisyon about sa disqualification case laban kay Pax Ali Mangudadatu, hindi pa final. So there's a chance n aareglo siya laban s COMELEC. He's currently running for governor against his own relative, Sharifa Akeel Mangudadatu.

Ang desisyon about sa disqualification case laban kay Pax Ali Mangudadatu, hindi pa final. So there's a chance n aareglo siya laban s COMELEC. He's currently running for governor against his own relative, Sharifa Akeel Mangudadatu. submitted by Jakeyboy143 to Philippines [link] [comments]


2022.01.20 01:12 the_skye_isnt_blue Offensive cave?

Why is there a cave shape that is distinctly shaped like a sw*stika?
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2022.01.20 01:12 somedumbretard666 My boyfriend is doing cocaine every weekend, I can’t take it anymore.

Boyfriend and I are both 39. For the last year he’s been doing cocaine every single weekend. The thing is, I’m an ex drug addict with hypertension and every time he brings it around it tempts me. I’ve begged him at least 50 times to stop. I’m worried I’ll slip up and do some and have a stroke or something to that degree. I’m also worried about his health and I’m worried he’s going to get fentanyl or something. I don’t understand how someone I’ve been with for 9 years can have such little regard for my health, not to mention his own. What almost 40 year old has a coke habit? I seriously can’t take it anymore, I’m angry all the time and I’m starting to hate him. Any advice?
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2022.01.20 01:12 OkDiorThen I’ve halted my social life solely on the fact that I’m not confident that I can talked properly

I’ve realized that the reason since high school why I haven’t really had friends or tried for relationships and it’s because I don’t feel really that confident in my ability to speak. It’s not that I don’t think I will sound intelligent but it’s because I feel like every time I talk, I won’t be able to say or convey what I’m thinking in my head without mumbling or stuttering. I find that when I try to talk my mouth fills with saliva and I talk so fast that the words just come out as a jumbled mess. Are there vocal exercises that I can do to improve this?
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2022.01.20 01:12 LeaveMeAloney Where do I start? After not playing for a year? (DIV2)

I stopped playing around December 2020. I have a lot of gear, but I now know NOTHING about the game. Everything has changed- how I used to craft and upgrade gear, I have absolutely no clue what I'm doing. I never get to use signature weapons, yet most of my perks have to do with them. I can't even beat any main missions by myself, even though, before my hiatus, I was melting everything solo.
It's a brand new game, and I still want to love it. Should I start a new character completely from scratch? Will I even learn anything from the journey? I'm so discouraged, because this game now doesn't look anything like the game I reluctantly quit way back when. I've never even played multiplayer, unless you count getting massacred in the dark zone.
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2022.01.20 01:12 bot_neen No se reportan personas lesionadas por incendio en Azcapotzalco - Noticias con Karla Iberia

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2022.01.20 01:12 Rare_Art_9541 Has anyone that graduated in December gotten their diploma yet?

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2022.01.20 01:12 newsfeedmedia1 Australia’s top selling electric car is Chinese MG ZS which has a quarter of niche market

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2022.01.20 01:12 LouderLouder Bonbon Girls 303's Curley Gao - Burn It All Down @ 2022 Huya Boom Night (01.16.22)

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2022.01.20 01:12 JT-Poison I wanna start a blog.. HELP ME

So i wanna start a blog but I really need help. I have an clothing brand and I wanna link them both together. Do you guys think thats a good idea? And how should I do it HELP!
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2022.01.20 01:12 newsfeedmedia1 Bob Saget’s widow Kelly Rizzo fights back tears in first interview since his death

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2022.01.20 01:12 catsrave2 Totaled my car while waiting for previous accident payout

Howdy friends, hoping y’all can help me out here.
I was rear ended in a hit and run. Person who hit me came clean when the police showed up at their house and their insurance was going to pay for my bumper repairs. Got a quote from a body shop, sent it to their claims department and got told I should be good to take my car in and that their insurance would pay me. Still waiting on that money to come along.
HOWEVER. Weather got real shitty on my drive home yesterday. When I was faced with smacking into another car or trying to slow my new snow sled on the shoulder of the freeway, I went for the latter. Unfortunately came to a stop around a sturdy sapling. Airbags deployed, front end is fifty shades of fucked up, back bumper is smashed. Hasn’t been seen by an adjuster because they can’t pull it out of the snow yet. She’s 100% totaled.
What should I do in regards to the previous claim? Obviously won’t need to take my car to get the bumper fixed. I could certainly use the 1700 bones from that claim to put towards my next car. But I’m unsure of the legality of that.
Any help is greatly appreciated!
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2022.01.20 01:12 glenkamo AMOnster Manual - APE, GORILLA (4/367)

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